The Energetics of Relationship - PART 2

By Kimberley Jones B.A.Hons

Last month you were introduced to the Relationship Field, the energy bubble that surrounds your personal energy fields & those of another person when you enter a relationship, however brief.
In the early stages this field gets flooded with love & light, your hearts are open & your personal energy fields are expanded & luminous, resonating with the love of the universe.
Later in the relationship this field, which forms the energetic framework for your union, can wither & dissolve or become so congested that neither of you feel healthy being in it any more. This is one of the main reasons at a core energy level why things start to go wrong. Behaviour & choices made in relationships are just unconsciously reflecting the energy dynamics.

So much higher vibrational love & light energy gets drawn into you & your relationship field when falling in love that it can lead to a form of detox at a deep emotional/energetic level. Most people are not used to experiencing such naturally ‘high’ energy. It is similar to when receiving healing for the first time, denser emotional or pain energy from the past rises to the surface. If you don’t understand this process you may start to project this pain onto each other. All that is actually happening is you are healing each other with love. If you don’t recognise emotional discharge when you see it you might take it all personally, you may believe the stuff that is coming up in your partner & think they have changed. Your Relationship Field then becomes a dumping ground for unprocessed pain which literally clouds things & makes intimacy harder to achieve.

The above energy dynamics can be transformed by consciously connecting to ‘the mains’ & learning how to cleanse yourself energetically (emotionally)& not depending on each other as your energy supply. Consciously connecting to Source & pure Earth energies will help rinse away emotional discharge & keep your Relationship Field clean. More specific tailor-made energy exercises may be required for your unique situation.

When you are in relationship you become connected with each other in the most intimate of ways via energy links, tubes that allow you access to each others’ core energy. This is a profound honour. Handled irresponsibly people are left feeling violated & utterly drained. Handled well this energetic intimacy can lead to the blissful union many dream of.

To be continued………………..